It’s official now, I have completely lost my appetite. Reason is very simple, hubby dear is away in Mumbai working @ client site for more than last 3 months.Me being alone here hardly feel like cooking for myself…morning breakfast,lunch and evening snacks are obviously preferred in office’s pathetic cafeteria. Initially,I was properly following my normal routine of preparing breakfast n lunch for myself.But now somehow I lost the interest..I am just not into it..its been whole 1 month since I have not prepared anything for myself in the morning.
In the evening when i get back to empty home, only thing I want to do is either read some book or just be myself thinking about V or Joe,my sis. My mind and stomach are closely related entities. Whenever I am extremely happy/depressed i don’t feel like eating.V always wonders how can I punish my stomach for the fact that I am depressed or disturbed over some matter?
Yesterday,while I was in Mumbai with my sis and her roomie,they realised that I have started neglecting my food habits a lot.I understand it’s not good for health but somehow i don’t have control over it. I was thinking about keeping a cook but again,keeping a cook just for a single person like me who,often eats as good as a toddler 😛 is really waste of cook’s time. So in nutshell its V,who is responsible for this, if he would have been here i would have always cooked..So its him who moved my cheese food away..Come home soon honey,my food is waiting for me 😛
My appetite also goes when I am upset or preoccupied. You could keep some ready to eat fruit in the fridge every evening and carry it to your room, near your laptop, in the car (in a tiffin box ) . Don’t neglect your health. Plan something for when he is back – a surprise – a changed look – your own or the way your house looks… time will pass faster. 🙂
Ohhh..the idea of planning some new look while he is away is really awesome..I should definitely try for this 😉
dono sis ek jaisi hi hain…lagta hai khaane se dushmaani hai…
ya phir dieting karne ka naya bahana 😉
hehehe..Syed you know we don’t need to diet at all 😛 and we are happy with it 🙂
WOW! So much of love… Cool! I wish I may also get a wife like you (though there is a lot of time for it 😉 )!
But you seriously gotta eat, otherwise your health will go down. I just admire your love towards your husband, just awesome! 😀
Really, I want to stop writing this comment, but my hands are still typing, don’t know why, may be I am touched by this immense love… :’)
Ok I should stop writing now, great post! 😀
Thanks..i will convey the message to hubby dear 🙂
Wo…. so many comments… I am actually thrilled to see ur progress… I have missed this space for such a long time. and you know why… Reading ur blog after like ages.
now coming to this particular post, you need a good amount of scolding from someone… and that someone needs to be informed about your apetite moving away.
but as of now, I want to do that on his behalf… better eat properly or else you will transform into invisible mode soon… take care of urself… hubby dear will be back soon.
Thanks sweetheart..welcome back 🙂 I will take care of my eatings now onwards 😉
lol
i am the exact opposite. i eat when i am alone or low or down or lonely.
its my best therapy.
and showing on my waist line now.
wifey n kiddo is away from more than a month na 😦
welcome to the club!
ohhh….good that your wife at least donn’t have to worry about your food etc…
Its indeed very difficult to cook for one person and eat it alone. I too hate it. But, the acidity episode taught me well. And so, now, I eat whether the world is moving or not. he he he !!! 😆
Take care of your health !!! 🙂
That’s the very good thing you are doing Ums…one should always take good care of one’s needs and health of course 🙂
I am with you..cooking food for one person is no fun..and I hate to eat alone..so even when there is food I don’t eat. I just go and eat a random bite once in a while..never a proper meal.. 😦
Hmmm..that means i am not the only one who here 😉
True i never go near stove when hubby is not eating in home a particular day,but for the lil one’s sake i cook for her alone.
Yeah very true..either baby or hubby you got some company to eat dear 😛
Oh I totally understand…it’s so hard to cook for oneself and eat. I lose appetite when am alone too…anyway, hope you get back to normal soon dear!
Yeah i am hoping to be normal soon 🙂
you all women need another reason to blame us poor husbands !!! Tch Tch !!!! 😀 😀 😀 😀
Yeah..just like every hubby needs another reason or every hubby has a sad story to tell 😀 😀 😀 😀
is this a special post by which you let the blog world know you are dieting and have us blame V for not taking care of you? 😉
if not, then, eat girl eat!!! And V is a bad boy 😀 😛
hehe…I am not at all into dieting..i don;t need to 😛 Nah V is not bad but his JOB 😉
WHy don’t u join V or mebbe get some company;)
Yeah dear we meet up mostly on Sunday 🙂
I am like that too. When hubby is out of town, I never feel like cooking for myself. I just survive on rice and pickles. But now, I have to give something for my son to eat. So, I am forced to cook. 🙂
Good that means you have got a company 🙂
Girl, you gotta EAT!
Yeah..But my heart controls my brain which should be other way round isn;t it 😛
awww 🙂 I m just the opposite..Whenever I am extremely happy/depressed I eat a lot!
Hey that’s the way it should be..is wat i believe 🙂
Oh this happens with me too 😛 But I prepare some 3-4 kinds of chutneys etc.. in the fridge and go abt making rotis/ rice to go with them 😉
That’s cool..You know what I just love the Tomato chutney kannadiga’ make in B’lore..its just yummmmm
Did u check with V, has he lost his appetite 😉 ?
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Nah..he has not 😉
and i am the opposite of u…when the husband is away yes regular food is thrown out of the window…but i make do with all kinds of fattening junk foods 😦
Yes it’s all V’s fault…Bad boy! 😀
Yes dear..I am spending my eveings spent on Maggie and Pasta.,Bcoz of this bad boy 😛
glad you just left the entity relation at very abstract level for both mind and stomach… believe it or not, i get head ache if I don’t take food on time usually. Exceptions are there too… when I decide to fast once in a month, both the mentioned entities co-ordinate very well 🙂
take good care of heath… it is everything! off to read that famous speech by Brian Dyson ,coca-cola’s CEO.. hope you too read that once again 🙂
Same here Mohan, i wonder how i forgot to mention this..I too get headaches when i am hungry..specially on the fasting day..which is once in a week 😛
do read that speech by Mr Dyson, it is worth and I am sure you will not repent for spending some time reading it.
Hey i will be reading the speech for sure..some food for brain 😉
Mohan i got the speech and read it too..its worth sparing some time to understand what he has said..very true !
That’s not very good..invite some guests !!! 🙂
haha..good idea…invite some guests and ask them to cook for me 😉
lol !!!
I am sure guests like you will always cook extra for me 😛
Aww. That’s so cute actually! But definitely not good!
I understand though, because when in a similar situation, I completely shifted to a Maggi only diet, which was not good in anyway too! Nice blog you have here, and with so many archives, I know what’s keeping me busy this week 😀
Yes DI..its not good..but what do you do when you don’t have control over something?