The woman in your life….

Another interesting forward…. worth reading……very true ! I am sure everybody who is reading this post will be agree with me 🙂 here it goes

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements. One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply Because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her; One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this…….
Please appreciate “HER” I hope you will do….

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One thought on “The woman in your life….

  1. Your views speak about typical marriages & not about nowadays marriages !

    Nowadays girls are advanced, they think forward & they want to work less, not because of force but by choice. A few good girls who may have not done anything in their life but are trying must be appreciated if the attitude is kept good. If not then it is not appreciated.

    A guy, the one who also nowadays is staying away from his parents / sisters / brothers / their kids is equally sacrificing as she is, perhaps nowadays it has become a usual practice that if u have married then please stay away ! And people happily do, cause of the so called "Career". Here, when you say the girl has aspirations / choices and etc. I would say the guy too has aspirations / choices and etc. the guy has girl colleagues who are perhaps beautiful and intelligent than wife, but there lies the attitude the girl should posses. Well, contradicting to your thoughts, I think Women should be handled softly, but when it comes to adjustment in marriages it is not just the "women" but the "Men" who also adjusts !
    Tc.

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