Girls/Women in India are always expected to Comply all the criteria decided by male dominated society.Forget about earlier generations,Today’s so called well educated,decent S/W engineers, who are working with me in a reputed organization too expect,their would be partner to fulfill all her duties like managing domestic affairs,cooking, looking after his family/kids SOLELY and that too without grumbling about anything…That sounds very ridiculous to me…I have simple questions for these guys,you expect a working/earning wife,suppose she is also a s/w engineer like you.You both are putting equal efforts in raising money for your present/future..then at the end of the day why should she only care for preparing dinner? ? or care about grocery stocks in home? If looking after every household stuff is solely her responsibility then what is yours??? earn money and your responsibility is finished?? Why do men always want to act like superiors to Women? What extra contribution are they making just being MEN? Other guy’s wife fallen sick some time back,this guy doesn’t know cooking and was ordering food for his sick wife from a restaurant for a week..I asked him would you appreciate if your wife does the same for you,while you are sick??? He had no answer for my question….
Generally all some guys in India have this typical mentality,they want their women to be educated,earning,independent etc. etc.But She should not be the governing authority. And should not hurt their ego alongwith this they also want her to take care of his family, consider herself as an integral part of his family,take care of his siblings,provide financial help whenever required However, can a girl expect same things from her life partner??? Does guys also consider themselves as part of “her” maternal family? and understand their responsibilities? moreover do they have any “Defined” responsibilities at all?
I have seen a guy refusing to pay his wife’s telephone bill ( dated “before their marriage” ) on the other hand he expected his wife to let him shell out odd lacks of rupees to settle his family’ disputes, fund his siblings for their education, marriage etc.since it’s his “Duty or Kartavya” What should his wife do in this case?? What you say?